Day 5: Love is not rude

10/19/16 (on hold for him to catch up)

He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him. —Proverbs 27:14

TODAY’S DARE
Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

What things did us both point out about you that need your attention? How did you handle hearing it? What do you plan to do to improve these areas?

1. How he treats my son and I.
2. No follow through on what he says he will do.
3. Refusee to accept suggestions: Ignores, inflexible, stubborn

I created my list. He has not. Our Couple's Therapist asked me to wait for him to catch up and have this done and talked about by 10/27 visit.
10/27 he still has not done this. (She had to postpone until Tue 11/1). 11/9 he has still not done it.